Now, the "WHAT" to do...

       Just as in the WHO, Deuteronomy 6:1-9 is our scripture reference. 

        The What of the matter! What does God say we as parents are to do is raising our children to relate to Him? In verse 1 He says, these things I am telling you are COMMANDS, DECREES, and LAWS.

The definition of command is; an authoritative direction or instruction to do something. And, a decree is, a legally binding command or decision entered on the court record. God states that as parents we are to teach our children His commands, and treat it as law. A law is a rule or body of rules of conduct inherent in human nature and essential to human society. Without Law we have anarchy. We as parents are commanded to train up our children to follow God’s decrees as it is law.
         Secondly Verse 5 tells us another, what, that God says. We are to teach our children through Love. …, “Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.” As a parent, are you modeling this Love for the Lord? Does your child see how to Love God by watching and hearing you? We have all had those awkward moments when our child displays a questionable action or word in public, that they would have never learned at home, but they did, and we turn bright red, and we quickly stumble on our words, grab them gently with a forced laugh, and whisk them away giving immediate council on the wrong behavior they just mirrored from us. Yes, I see you have been there. Do you see how they are an extension of us? They are a little you.
         Do we teach our children what a right relationship looks like? Scripture says in verse 7 that we, as parents, are to “IMPRESS it on our children”, “it” being the commands and decrees of the Lord. To impress means to have an emotional or cognitive impact upon; or, to produce or try to produce a vivid impression of. This clearly states we are to give all our effort for the end result of having our children live in a devoted relationship with the One True God! To truly achieve this we must first be committed to live it and model the proper relationship with God in our lives. Impress it on our children when they see us in the word of God, as they see us pray, as they see us relating to our spouse, in how we react or respond to them, and our relationship to those around us. Is the Sabbath Holy? We are called to corporate worship, assembling together, meaning coming to church. We are the example our child sees day in and day out, don’t be the what or how not to, and definitely don’t be the, “don’t do as I do, do as I say” type…it never works out. We will reproduce the relationship we have with God in our children, Impress the right things on them.
           The instruction manual on what to do is clear. It’s authoritative, a binding record, and inherent in all and essential to all. God’s desire for a relationship with us is easy to see. He has given us every tool and ability to connect with Him on such a deep level. The reason so many kids run from their faith is because mom and dad haven’t been or don’t know how to relate spiritually to God themselves. In turn they don’t know how or won’t invest in their child’s spiritual growth until crisis hits. What to do? Live it daily, with fervor and passion. You are accountable and commanded.